Experts demystify myths and truths about caring for the new babies in the house

After 40 weeks of waiting, the baby finally arrived. New routine, with new schedules and a new family member. All of this sounds exhilarating, but for first-time dads, this experience can end up raising a lot of doubts.

1. Babies feel cooler than adults, so they need to be super warm. MYTH

Many parents overwrap the baby, but this practice should be avoided. Newborns feel cooler than adults, but it’s not as dramatic a difference as most parents think. Some signs that can help identify if your baby is cold are the temperatures of the hands, feet and nose. If these limbs are cold, it means the child is cold.

2. The baby does not have to burp every time he feeds. TRUTH

If the baby doesn’t burp after nursing, don’t despair. Belching only occurs when the child swallows air while sucking on breast milk—which does not always happen. However, if the baby is bottle-feeding or has reflux, it is important that he be held for a few minutes in an upright position (standing) before being placed in the crib. The famous “slaps on the back” are not necessary to stimulate the reaction.

3. The baby should sleep on his side to prevent reflux. MYTH

According to experts, the correct position for the baby to sleep is on his back and only with his head on the side. They recommend the anti-reflux pillow — which has holes in it. It prevents suffocation if the baby turns away during the night. Another measure is to avoid stuffed animals and other toys that may stop breathing.

4. At bath time, only children’s soaps should be used. TRUTH

The liquid versions of children’s soaps are ideal for bath time, as their composition is specific for children’s skin — which is more sensitive than that of adults. According to experts, it is important to emphasize that one bath a day is enough for the baby.

5. Lotions and perfumes can be applied to newborns. MYTH

Perfumes and lotions—usually applied after showering—should be avoided so as not to encourage the development of respiratory allergies. If parents want to apply the essences, it should be in small quantities and always on top of clothes, never directly on the baby’s skin — and, of course, brands intended for children should be used.

6. Cleaning the umbilical stump should be done after bathing and at each diaper change. TRUTH

Experts recommend that the stump be cleaned at least six times a day or with every diaper change. For this, use a cotton swab soaked in absolute alcohol or 70%, and try to clean from the base upwards, until the swab comes out completely clean. After that, you don’t need to wrap the baby around with the umbilical band. With this daily care, the stump will fall out naturally between seven and 14 days.

7. Breast milk can be weak. MYTH

According to experts, the inexistence of “weak milk” is proven. Most women are able to produce milk in sufficient quantity and quality. However, during breastfeeding, it is important to correctly position the baby so that he is able to fully grasp the nipple to encourage constant food production. Another tip for moms is to consume up to two liters of milk a day, so that it doesn’t dry out too soon.

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